Abimbola Fashola at 60: Celebrating a life dedicated to lifting others

Abimbola Emmanuela Fashola was the former First Lady of Lagos state. Founder of Leadership Empowerment and Resource Network (L.E.A.R.N), she is an experienced administrator who is passionate about advocating for positive change. In celebration of her 60th, family, friends and well-wishers celebrate her by sharing their love for her with words from the heart and collated by KEMI AJUMOBI. Excerpts.

My Dear Abimbola,

I celebrate you as you commemorate the sixtieth anniversary of your birth for a life that has been well lived, especially in the service of God and humanity.

On this diamond anniversary, it is fitting to acknowledge how like a diamond you have sparkled and lit up many lives, including mine and our children.

Beyond us, the spark of your existence has ignited many other lives from far and near.

Like the diamond, you are valued, treasured, and much sought after.

Most especially, you wear value and humility with ease.

Above all, like the diamond, you possess an inner strength that has been a rock for all of us.

I pray for many more years of a very healthy and fulfilled life for you.

Happy birthday and many happy returns, my darling.

With all my love.

Babatunde Raji Fashola SAN CON

We celebrate our mother who has poured so much love, wisdom, and generosity into our lives, as she turns 60.

With six decades of life, love, and dedication, she has evolved into a pillar of strength, and compassion. Her optimism, and generous spirit have inspired countless hearts, including ours.

As a mother, she has been a source of guidance, and motivation. Her selfless devotion and nurturing spirit have helped shape us into the individuals we are today. Her influence and remarkable qualities have been blessings to us and we’re forever grateful.

As we celebrate this milestone birthday, we honour not only her years but also her legacy. A legacy of service, compassion and generosity that will continue to inspire and motivate for generations to come.

Happy 60th birthday, dear mum! We love you more than words can express. Here’s to many more years of joy, happiness, good health and peace of mind.

With love of always,

Ademola on behalf of all of the children.

Happy 60th birthday to an extraordinary woman who fondly calls me ‘Mummy’—our cherished daughter from Ibadan, the pacesetter state. True to your roots, you have distinguished yourself on the global stage, embodying grace, humility, and excellence.

I fondly recall my first meeting with Her Excellency, Dame Abimbola Fashola years back at the International Women’s Leadership Conference in Dubai, where you warmly embraced me and addressed me as ‘Mummy’ in recognition of my position as the First Lady of Oyo State—your beloved home. Since then, our paths have crossed on numerous occasions, and your warmth, kindness, and poise has always distinguished you.

Mummy Fashola, your elegance, inner strength, and radiant smile truly captivates. As you celebrate this significant milestone, I pray that God, in His infinite mercy, blesses you with many more years of good health, joy, and fulfillment.

Congratulations and Happy 60th birthday Your Excellency, Dame Abimbola Fashola. May this new chapter bring you even greater achievements, peace and happiness.

Yours Sincerely,

Tamunominini Makinde

First Lady of Oyo State

Today, we celebrate you, our priceless diamond, our beloved big mummy, Dame Emmanuella Abimbola Fashola, as you sparkle into the incredible diamond jubilee milestone of 60 years.

You are a profound blessing, an inestimable treasure in our lives.

From the very start, you have been a pillar of strength, a nurturer, and a selfless giver. You embraced responsibility with grace, stepping into the role of a sister like no other, and a mother to many, ensuring that everyone was cared for, guided, supported, uplifted, and loved. Your kindness, compassion, and humility set you apart, and your unwavering dedication to family and service continues to inspire us all.

Happy 60th birthday, our dearest Big Mummy!

We are filled with gratitude for the light, love, and wisdom you bring to our family and beyond. Your life is a testament to God’s goodness and favour, and we honour the countless ways you have touched our lives.

We pray that this new chapter is filled with good health, immeasurable joy, and even more abundant blessings as the Almighty continue to bless and keep you in many more years of fulfillment, grace. and sparkle like the diamond that you are.

With all our love,

Adewinsi Adeojo Family

My dearest sister, friend and my personal First Lady,

It’s been a real pleasure to know you for the past thirty five years of being married to your cousin. Your forthrightness, loving, welcoming and humble nature has remained unchanged as I watched you walk through different seasons. As you celebrate your sixtieth birthday, I wish you God’s goodness, grace, mercy, perfect health and abundance of joy. As you selflessly care for others, may the care and love of God never cease in your life. May all that brings you joy, never become a source of sorrow. You will see your children’s children and may generations yet unborn call you blessed. Happy birthday my darling sister.

Love you lots always

Ibukun Awosika

Bimbo and I are cousins from the Great Ojo Ibadan family in Oje, Ibadan. We basically grew up together with our houses across the street from each other in Ebute Metta, Lagos. Growing up, Bimbo was not only an elder sister figure to her siblings, Toun, Bola and Kunle, she was also a very responsible reliable and dependable mother figure to them, this was because mama Aladura (Bimbo’s mother) does not joke with attending her Roman Catholic church activities and often times leaves Bimbo to be in charge of the house ensuring that her siblings eat and are well behaved. I don’t know how she does it, but it was always very obvious that she was in charge. Bimbo is also a very caring and loving woman and I have never seen her provide preferential treatment to her own children over other children in her care. She treats everyone the same, this is a very rare gift. I wish Abimbola a very happy birthday with numerous blessings from God. May the Lord answer all your prayers for your husband, children, Lagos state and Nigeria in Jesus mighty name.

Your favourite cousin

Abiodun Awosika

Happy birthday to Dame Abimbola Emmanuella Fashola. A compassionate, kind, exceptional, amazing and humorous person.

Welcome to the sixth floor. I thank God for 60 remarkable years of grace.

Age is merely the number of years I have had the joy of knowing you, and I am grateful for the bond we share.

We did not meet by accident, we crossed path, for a lifetime of sisterly friendship. I thank you for your love, support, travelling adventures, humour, and memories that we share.

You are a special person who means so much to me and to everyone else who has had the privilege of knowing you.

Maami, as I fondly call you (because of your motherly attribute) May you look back and see that you have lived an amazing life and touched so many with your kindness and thoughtfulness.

Over the years, you have remained true to yourself, never changing, no matter where God took you. Your accessibility and ever ready to help and support your friends and family is next to none.

On this special day, I pray that God will continue to bless you with long life, good health, peace, joy, favour, and strength.

As you advance towards the next decade, may every day of your life be a day of thanksgiving.

I love and appreciate you.

May your day be as special as you are and be filled with joyful memories.

Adebimpe Ekundayo

Sixty years ago, the world was blessed with a truly remarkable soul, and for over forty of those years, I have had the honour and privilege of calling her my best friend. Today, as we celebrate this milestone in her life, I find myself reflecting on the extraordinary person that Bimbo is—someone who embodies kindness, loyalty, and an unwavering sense of self.

To know Bimbo is to know warmth, sincerity, and a heart that beats for others. She is the kind of person who never wears a mask, always true to herself and those around her. In a world where people often change to fit circumstances, she remains a beacon of authenticity. Her unwavering integrity and steadfast spirit have been a source of inspiration to all who have crossed her path.

One of Bimbo’s most remarkable qualities is her ability to bring people together. She has always been the glue that binds friendships, families, and communities. Whether it is through her infectious laughter, her wise counsel, or her simple presence that fills a room with love, she ensures that those around her never feel alone. She has built bridges where there were once divides, fostered unity where there was discord, and strengthened bonds that might have otherwise faded with time.

Through life’s triumphs and trials, Bimbo has been a pillar of strength—not just for me, but for everyone privileged enough to be in her circle. She has celebrated our joys as though they were her own and stood beside us in our moments of sorrow with unwavering support. Her kindness is not performative; it is genuine and deep-rooted, woven into the very fabric of who she is.

Sixty years is a milestone that speaks of wisdom, experience, and a life well-lived. For Bimbo, it is also a testament to the impact she has had on the countless lives she has touched. As I celebrate her today, I do so with immense gratitude—for her love, her friendship, and the countless ways she has enriched my family’s lives. I offer a heartfelt toast to a woman whose spirit shines brightly, whose laughter is contagious, and whose love knows no bounds.

Abimbs, you are more than a friend; you are a sister, a confidante, and a gift to all who know you. May this new chapter bring you as much joy as you have given to others. Happy 60th birthday!

Olayinka Yussuf

Today we celebrate 60 beautiful years of an exceptional wife, sister, friend and mother to so many, Dame Abimbola Fashola.

“Madam” as I fondly call you. You are a shining light in our lives – a source of wisdom, laughter, and kindness. There is never a single dull moment when you are around, and your warmness resonates every room you walk into. Madam, we are all grateful for you. For your love and generosity. I am especially grateful for your sisterhood, friendship, and the beautiful memories that we have shared together. Your big heart and the way you accommodate both young and old with so much ease is very admirable.

I thank you for always being there. I thank you for your unwavering presence and support. You certainly make the world a better place and you are a blessing to us and those whose lives you have touched.

Sixty is not just a number, it is a testament of God’s Grace and blessings in your life, and I am pleased to be witnessing this glorious celebration.

This year is also a testament to your beautiful life and the wonderful person that you are. You are a rare grape that made the grade. I hope that this milestone age is a reminder of how deeply you are loved and how much joy you bring to those around you. It is my prayer for you Madam that this new age brings you endless happiness, good health, and God’s continuous blessings. May your children’s children surround your table. Amen.

Love,

Azeezat Tijani

This is a tribute to you my sister and friend. I am extending a warm embrace of hearty congratulations to you today. Here is wishing that you enjoy a birthday of joy and happiness. May this day return happily full of joy, peace, good health and love. Knowing that you will continue to be that special person whose energy impacts her interests and surroundings in no small measure.

Your infectious laughter and personality endears you to me and all the people who have known you well over the years. This is a huge blessing.

When you call me ‘Mrs Shash!’ in jest or in playful caution, I pay attention because I know whatever foĺlows comes from your heart. You have never been a ‘push over’. I am proud to have written and published the book “In Her own Right” a tribute to your work as both First Lady of Lagos State and a philanthropic person.

I thank God for all the goodwill you have brought to children and womenfolk especially in education and your support to the needy in Nigeria and beyond.

May God continue to illuminate your life, the way you have done for others, showing you the best paths and making your dreams come true.

Your family and friends will continue to enjoy you for the gift you are.

Happy Birthday to a true sister! I am so glad that the Almighty caused our paths to cross. You are a true blessing.

Gbemi Shasore

I want to give glory to Almighty God for giving my dear sister and girlfriend of my boss and brother the grace of this diamond birthday anniversary.

Dame Abimbola from the onset of my first meeting as incoming First Lady in 2006 won my heart with her simplicity, humility and genuineness. Overtime, I discovered a mother, friend, confidant, love, laughter in her and most importantly a lover of God. There are not enough words to describe her but just to say she is beautiful in and out. She loves people to a fault and accommodates the young, old, elderly with pure joy. I have learnt greater virtues and values from my relationship with her which has made me better than I was.

Through her NGO, she has impacted thousands of lives. This she does quietly and diligently. You cannot be around her and be sad because she infects you with her joy, humour and happiness.

I want to appreciate you for accepting me from our first meeting as a big sister into your loving family. As you mark this milestone, you will mark many more in good health and happiness. As you water other people, Almighty God will water you and your family. You will have reasons to celebrate the goodness and mercy of God. Grow in grace, wisdom, understanding and the presence of Jehovah will abide with you always.

On behalf of my husband and children, we say congratulations and appreciate your love. Happy diamond birthday my dearest sister and excellent big mummy.

Sarah Bisi Sosan, OFR

Today, I celebrate not just the 60th birthday of a remarkable woman, but the grace, strength, and purpose that Dame Abimbola Fashola has carried so effortlessly throughout the decades of her impactful life.

To know Abimbola is to encounter a rare blend of elegance and humility, quiet strength and unwavering faith, intellect and compassion. She wears her many roles as wife, mother, friend, stateswoman, and humanitarian with dignity and selflessness. It has been one of the blessings of my life to walk beside her as a friend, and to witness first-hand the depth of her kindness and the breadth of her vision.

As First Lady of Lagos State, she redefined what it meant to serve. She turned platforms into purpose and influence into impact, whether advocating for women’s health, championing education, or empowering the youth through her LEARN initiative. In every space she occupies, she brings light, grace, and substance. She listens with empathy, leads with wisdom, and loves with a heart so large it embraces all.

But beyond the public figure is the woman I have come to cherish deeply: thoughtful in friendship, steadfast in values, and richly grounded in faith. Through life’s ebbs and flows, she has remained anchored in integrity, modesty, and service. Qualities that make her not just a beacon to women, but a blessing to all who know her.

At 60, she stands tall as a matriarch of substance and style; a woman who has nurtured generations and inspired many more. Her story is a testament to the power of a life lived intentionally and generously. She has not only walked in purpose but lit the way for others to follow.

Our dearest Dame, as you mark this beautiful milestone, may the next chapter of your life be filled with divine peace, radiant joy, and continued fulfillment.

May your days be surrounded by love, laughter, and the comforting assurance that your legacy is deeply etched in the hearts of many, including mine.

Happy 60th Birthday, my darling sister and friend. The world is better because you are in it.

With all my love,

Agnes Adetoun Ajomale

Happy 60th birthday to an amazing Amazon that I am privileged to call a friend and sister!

Dame, Big Mummy, Bfash or HE (as she’s fondly called) is “over humble” – her humility and simplicity is astonishing and has endeared her to all and sundry.

She is someone I admire a lot – friendly, jovial and outspoken, she says it as it is. Plus she doesn’t suffer fools gladly! Bimbo’s kindness, generosity, and charitable work has touched countless lives! Her pet project L.E.A.R.N which started when she was the First Lady of Lagos State is still going strong over 10 years since she left office. A testimony to her dedication to whatever she lays her hands to do.

I haven’t even touched on her walk with God and support of various ministries.

Congratulations! Many Happy Returns! Here’s wishing you the very best birthday ever. God bless you today and always.

Much love

Bola Ayeni

Today, I celebrate an extraordinary woman, a sister, a mother, a boss and someone I fondly call “Iyar.” You embody the perfect blend of elegance and humility, class and down-to-earth simplicity, firmness and kindness.

You wear many hats, but your compassion, generosity, and unwavering dedication to family and community remain constant.

As you mark this significant milestone – your 60th birthday – I honour you for being a trailblazer, a source of inspiration, and a shining example of resilience.

Your selflessness, guidance, and love have touched countless lives, and I’m grateful to be among those who’ve benefited from your presence.

Here’s to many more years of celebrating you, your wisdom, and your unwavering commitment to making the world a better place!

Happy 60th Birthday Iyar!

Temitope George

My wife and I join numerous well-wishers in celebrating our mentor-in-service and big sis, Dame Abimbola Fashola, a light of elegance, fortitude, and service, on her 60th birthday.

Dame Abimbola Fashola, a woman of dignity, knowledge, and unwavering devotion to societal improvement, has embodied the essence of leadership, compassion, and selfless service.

From our first encounter till date, she has conducted herself with elegance that is only equalled by her strong sense of duty to the people, particularly women and children. Even after her time in public office, her perseverance has paid off.

She has inspired many people by demonstrating that true greatness is found in service, humility, and a steadfast commitment to making the world a better place.

Beyond her public contributions, Dame Abimbola Fashola exemplifies family, faith, and fortitude. She is a source of strength for her family and a source of inspiration for many who look up to her, myself inclusive. Her ability to combine responsibility and warmth, power and kindness, and leadership with elegance is genuinely admirable.

As she marks this milestone, it is evident that her journey has been one of purpose and impact. Sixty years of inspiring lives and nurturing dreams. Indeed, she is not just celebrating years, she is celebrating a legacy; a legacy of love, service, and humanity.

May this new decade bring you even greater joy, strength, and fulfilment, and may God bless you with many more years of health, peace, and abundant grace.

Happy 60th Birthday, our big sis and mentor-in-service, Dame Abimbola Fashola!

Tonye and Sylvia Cole

Of rarest kindness and proven humility…

My very own good mother, Her Excellency, Dame Abimbola Fashola, words can hardly template your virtuous deeds. But let this few of mine be found true, of the rare breed you are, mother!

I am a living testimony of your labour of love to humanity and those of the household of faith. A voice of encouragement to my family in time of deepest needs. Your commitment to my music ministry is unwavering; the several journeys from Lagos to Ibadan to grace the TURN IT UP WITH BIG B Concert live, the patience you constantly exercise, your humble demeanour, and characteristic generosity to my team over the years. What about referrals? You are a guardian angel in my strides towards destiny.

I am grateful for the gift of you-mother, who you are and all you have done for me. From my heart, I pray that the good Lord causes His grace and power to abound towards you. May your life be enriched with good news always. With long life and sound health the Lord will satisfy you. Mother, happy sixtieth birthday Ma.

Bolaji Olanrewaju (Big B)

To a wonderful mummy, happy 60th birthday to you Ma. You have been instrumental to the success of a lot of people.

Your life has been a remarkable journey, filled with many milestones and achievements

God bless you Ma

Happy birthday

Yaw

Eleven years ago, I was a bright eyed 11 year old girl, who believed that any one at any age could make a difference, if they believed in their journey and worked hard towards a simple goal. This was swimming in a sea where many thought young people, especially young girls need to focus on things their age or just school and homework. But I knew there were people out there who thought otherwise. One of such persons was Dame Abimbola Fashola, whom I first met when she agreed to speak at my First Lady’s colloquy at the Eko signature hotel in Lagos. A year later, now aged 12, she was right there again, supporting my new girl’s education initiative, and signing onto it at the State House in Lagos. Ten years later, she still makes time for me at every opportunity. As a woman, she embodies grace, class, humility, and sheer compassion, and she is a firm believer in the wellbeing of all, especially girls.

Many happy returns to my absolutely coolest big aunty, and happy 60th birthday!

Zuriel Oduwole

13 years ago when I started the Inspiring Woman Series conference, I knew exactly what I needed to do and God helped me follow through. One of the women who encouraged me was Dame Abimbola Fashola. I remember meeting her and asking her to come and speak at the second edition. Without knowing me from “Jump Street”, she accepted. I was shocked she did. She was a First Lady with no airs. Everybody felt the same. I remember at that particular edition, anytime I saw her anywhere before the event and I asked her to be reassured she would come, she would smile and say she promised to show up and she would. And she did exactly that. From then till date, Mummy Fashola has solidly been in my corner. Be it my birthday, or whenever I need encouragement, or even at other editions of the conference, Mummy Fashola always shows up for me. She would stay till the very end. Anywhere we meet, it is always a refreshing experience, most recently in Dubai. Mummy Fashola is my vibe! Filled with positivity! When I had to have a thanksgiving, she was there right by my side. When I lost my parents, she was there too. Your heart is beautiful and it radiates in all you do. Thank you for always showing up for me…emphasis on ALWAYS! Thank you for your care and advice. Your generosity is innate. Your heart for service is admirable. I love you mummy Fashola and you mean the world to me. As you turn 60, may God’s peace rest upon your heart, may His protection surround you and His joy forever be your portion. Happy 60th our own Mother Teresa!

Kemi Ajumobi